Laugh Out Loud

                               So what tics do you have???

                                        Note: I do not own this photo. Borrowed from http://tourettestoucan.tumblr.com/post/52585477270/so-what-are-your-tics


    Ever have one of those laugh or cry moments? Tourette Syndrome can be frustrating, overwhelming, maddening, etc. but it can also be funny or silly. I've had people ask me this question soooo many times and I'm thinking: Where do I start? Do you want the manual? I love the above meme because it illustrates the answer to this question so perfectly. What I usually do when asked that sort of question is just rattle off the first dozen or so that come to mind.
    So the meme out there these days for all of us Touretters is Tourette's Toucan! Some of them are funny or awkward, some are just irritants that we experience, and mostly all of them are relatable. If you click on the link attached to the site name and click on "Memes only" in the bottom right hand corner, you can take a look at all of the ones posted so far, but for today I'm going to name a few moments of my own. If you don't have TS or don't know a whole lot about it, some of the memes may be confusing, so feel free to ask!
     I remember a time, not long after I was diagnosed, when I was lying on the couch having what's called a complex-motor tic. I was having a tic where my entire body was periodically jerking and shaking every which way. At one point I ticced so hard I fell off the couch laughing. Thinking back on it, the whole scene was kind of funny, but having those complex tics are not always fun, they can be downright aggravating and frustrating.
    In fact, I've had many moments where I break down and cry because my tics are so overwhelming and "in my face" that I don't feel like I can cope on my own. I hope that everyone out there has some sort of support group or confidante they can lean on and draw strength from when their own is waning. The important thing to remember is that those hard tic phases don't last and the cycle will calm down and change just like any other. Lastly, please remember one can always contact the Tourette Syndrome Association when at a loss for answers. This is why promoting awareness and understanding is so essential, so that in the future there will be more and more resources available to the TS population.

(I made this one myself) This has happened to me more times then I can count lol I used just automatically laugh and say , "Yeah!" but these days it's pretty much automatic to say no without any further explanation. lol

Happy Father's Day!!!

     It's rainy and chilly outside. Unusual weather for this time of year in the Northern Panhandle, but I don't mind. I've mentioned several times how my mum has been a great help to me throughout my years in dealing with Tourettes. I've talked about how she's supported me, guided me, taught me to stand up for myself, etc, but today I want to talk about my dad.
    Whatever mysterious gene that Tourette Syndrome comes on came from his side of the family, along with OCD. Several of the oddities that I've experienced over the years, he's gone through himself. Having TS can be very lonely when you're the only known one in the family who has it, so it's kind of cool when we find something else in common. Throughout my college career, as I've mentioned before, I've experienced some prejudices that I didn't know how to or couldn't deal with on my own. My dad has come to class with me when I felt like I couldn't be alone, and he's gone to bat for me when someone wouldn't give me the accomadations I needed or didn't seem to "get" that having Tourettes can be difficult and can sometimes make certain everyday activities hard to deal with such as: ticcing in public, standing or sitting still for long periods of time, being quiet, sensory processing, etc.
    My dad, my mum, and various other peoples have been responsible for the on-going process of learning to be comfortable with myself and my tics and being able to stand up for myself. I don't believe in being quiet or sitting on the sidelines while someone gives me a proverbial beating. I don't always know what to say, but, chances are, someone else does. The important thing to remember is each time someone sticks up for me and/or I stick up for myself, and promote Tourette Syndrome awareness, I've gained another notch in my belt of advocation. Being an advocate can be something as simple as telling someone you have Tourettes, because you're showing that you're not ashamed of who you are.
    I had one incident at a place of employment when I was a sophomore in college where a supervisor got upset with me for calling home because my tics were so bad that I couldn't be still for a second and I didn't know what to do. This was also during a time when I was less than okay with expressing my tics in public. When I tried to explain that I had obtained permission to call and that I had TS, he refused to listen and told me to go home. Try as I might, I couldn't hold back my tears. My mum who was on the phone this whole time listening to the exchange told my dad what was happening and within fifteen minutes he was up there speaking on my behalf to the man who had committed the transgression. If it hadn't been for my dad that day, I don't know what I would have done.
    In closing, I just want to remind everyone that everyone out there who has Tourette Syndrome or knows someone with does is covered under that American Disabilities Act. That means no one is allowed to discriminate against you because of your disability.